Hey everyone, its been quite a while i posted something. Today, i won't be talking about lahore but about something else, most common between the youth of lahore. It's the so called feeling they call love. Nowadays every cafe, park, restaurant, hotel, motel you visit, you'll see a 'couple' sharing a coffee, sheesha or strolling hand in hand. It's like Pakistani's feel they have become westernized or something. I won't say its wrong to like someone but neither do people really adore too much PDA (Public display of affection).
In my point of view, i've seen guys mostly take the wrong meaning of love. Girls wait for a prince charming while boys just want to frolick around and have fun. Some boys even go to the extent of dating 2-3 girls at the same time. Oh how i wish they could multi-task in something better , say, studying =D. If you want to love someone, love them wholeheartedly, not half-heartedly. Another thing, known as respect,which most people may not know the meaning of, has been lost between boys and girls. If someone treats you right, the bashing starts there and then. Some respect =/ . You do something for someone, they don't see it. You say a few kind words, they ignore them. We just need to constantly prove, prove and prove ourselves, with no outcome. "Kisi k lye jtna kro utna kum hai" What in the world is someone supposed to do?
As the saying goes "Aj kal logo ko izzat raas nae ati"
At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try. It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.
well said!
ReplyDeleteannoys the crap out of me how girls/boys are in "love" with someone and then after 2 weeks it's someone else!
attraction, infatuation, flirtation is NOT LOVE